Sure it is. But, it takes work, no doubt. I’m sitting next to a man in the airport who is obviously arguing with his wife or girlfriend or signficant other. Here are a few of the choice phrases:

You never listen

That’s not what I meant

You don’t care

I don’t care

If that’s what you want

Let me try and say that again

See, this is the problem (referring to the other person)

You talk to much

And the beat goes on…

Why is it so easy to hear what this guy is doing wrong, but I can’t see it when I do it?